Wow. Such a great and relevant article. It may sound strange to say, but I really enjoyed reading. I can relate so much in my own ways. The bit about the top hat made me smile, and also made me think as a former ballet dancer how wonderful it would’ve been if I could’ve performed a pirouette as I exited the conference room! The thing is most of the time these things are not personal at all, which is helpful, but at the same time is also a very dehumanizing experience as well. Thank you so much for writing this 💖